Tuesday, June 28, 2005

That girl

I went out to Buffalo Wing University in Fairfax a few nights ago. It was fun. My sister works there and were were just kickin' it with a few beers and shootin the shit with some of my friends, Brian & Andrew.

Well, we meet this girl. She seems alright and sits at our table. Everything is fine and we're all just chattin' and all of the sudden this chick starts randomly bragging about hooking up with a guy in the middle of the bar. Now at this time, please review the fact that we had just met her. And it's not like any of us were going around talking about past hookup stories.

This, my friends, is a HUGE pet peeve of mine. Girls who try to draw attention to themselves by randomly blurting out sex tales in front of random people. You know the type.

It's like when you're playing the drinking game, Never Have I Ever, (a personal favorite of mine). You try to call your friends out. And it's all in good fun. Of course the "never have I evers" turn sexual at some point, (often right in the beginning). And, again, you just try to call out your friends for some laughs. But there is always some girl who says something detailed along the lines of "Never have I ever had sex with 3 people in one night: in the back of a truck and then in a bar bathroom and then in a jacuzzi filled with people. And then had sex with a married man the next morning."

And of course, she is the only one to drink. She called herself out. She's a random, nobody knows her very well, and now everyone's thinking she's a slut. But she doesn't care, she wants people to like her and think of her as sexy. Wrong way to do it sweetie.

Believe me, I don't think there's anything wrong about being confident in your sexuality. I think that everyone should be. And it can be fun to swap sex/hook up stories with friends (if that's what you do). But it's another to be so insecure that you have to draw attention to yourself by making yourself out to be easy. That's actually the complete opposite of having confidence in your sexuality. It's annoying and makes people laugh at/gossip about you behind your back.


PS. I wonder what type of pornographic google ads this post's gonna bring... ;)

8 Comments:

At 10:20 AM, Blogger Elvis said...

Sara, you're just gonna have to excuse these people who don't know how to conduct themselves. It's like there's a factory out there that manufactures these people and then we import them from the Chinese and run up a deficit. I met a girl last week in Clarendon and thought she was cool at first (and hot) and after a while, she was annoying... so I ditched her on one of my buddies. And that's what freinds do for each other. haha

 
At 10:21 AM, Blogger I-66 said...

There's nothing wrong with exposing yourself for having done something if it's in an effort to nail others who have too.. but when you just want to do it to effectively scream "I did this! Look at me!" then it's jussssst a little lame. You might as well wear a "Hi, my name is:" tag with your deviant sexual act written on it instead.

Hey.. that's not a bad idea...

 
At 11:07 AM, Blogger roosh said...

post pictures of your sister

 
At 11:15 AM, Blogger Lil DC Diva said...

I've known the type to do this. It's more of an insecurity issue over anything else, we just have to feel sorry for the person and hope they one day realize they don't need to stoop to that level to show how great of a person they are. They are just getting attention in all the wrong ways.

 
At 11:38 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Ugh I completely agree. Girls/women these days think that bragging about how sexual active they are turns on the boys/men around them because clearly that is what she was trying to do. She wanted the attention of the 2 guys you were hanging out with, not the attention from you. Most guys think it is hot at first and are attracted to these wild women, but guys usually go for the good girls in the end! ;)

 
At 11:50 AM, Blogger Sara said...

dcb - i probably will... but in case you're thinking about anything - she's too young for you ;)

 
At 1:07 PM, Anonymous bk said...

The best part of it... was how she went into the story. She was giving Sara's sister advice like don't go around that guy when your drunk, you might make the same mistake I did and just make out with him at the bar while on your shift. I think the girl doesn't get a lot of action or attention. Don't they have internet dating for those folks now?

 
At 1:10 PM, Blogger roosh said...

hah. younger than 18?

 

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